
Now that Christmas presents are the current concern, here are some images of thrift finds, which I've already used for Mr. Nest's aunts' birthdays. The pretty vase I used for the yellow flowers is actually a sugar bowl.
One of the best places for containers/bric-a-brac is the annual Indian Bazaar at Riverview, for the benefit of the
Jesuit Mission's charity work. The small plates above cost me 20 to 50 cents each. However, I regularly browse Vinnies for small containers, trays or pretty plates, worth a dollar or two, for presenting any of the (most requested) food I make for presents: rich chicken liver paté, chewy chocolate chip cookies, Argentinian empanadas, small pastel de pollo (chicken pies), and brownies.
I have been often frustrated that despite giving a wishlist (for my family) of what we want individually at Christmas, we give relatives the option of simply giving us even 5 dollars to contribute to buy that toy or item. Instead, we are given dollar store items which we don't really need or like, or huge toy sets of poor quality and worse, these cost more than the five or ten dollars we ask.
Have you been in the same boat? I mean honestly, if I expressed a need for pillowcases a month before (or a bit of money towards buying that), would you flood me with a huge scented candle, or figurines and weirdly shaped serving platters that cost more? And sure, it's the thought that counts, but doesn't that betray the lack of it? I suspect a lot of us recycle and give out the presents we don't want. Yet if we abide by consideration and sensitivity, really, we could halt that punishing cycle of receiving something we don't need and passing it on out there to someone who doesn't want it either.
I'm now ranting. But I'm hopeless. Mr. Nest tells me to give up on people, when I insist on giving them or their kids something with a message about halting rampant consumerism, bigger is not better, etc.
I am suggesting that this Christmas, MAKE IT COUNT. If you can cook, give food or drink as presents, and reserve the buying from shops for kids' toys. Make IOU cards where you promise something for friends and relatives--babysitting, cooking or cleaning service, a coffee or lunch date at a specific cafe, a picnic, etc.
Now for those who mentored my son all throughout his stay at the junior school, I am gifting them each with the KeepCup, an amazing product from Melbourne. My son's teachers and school staff love their coffee and they buy their daily dose in a takeaway cup from a cafe across the school gate. So this will not only be handy but truly helpful. Check it out
here. It's so worth it and it speaks volumes.
Tread gently, buy less, reuse and reduce.